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We are so excited that you are taking part in the Love That Lasts Experience.

Here is a short summary helping to explain where to start and go next, to ensure the smoothest and easiest experience for you!

We realize that some of you might have purchased the whole Love That Lasts Experience and others have bought different pieces separately, so we will explain how we designed this experience and provide links to all the pieces if you need to pick something else up.

We created the Love That Lasts Experience to be a 12-week journey through the 12 biggest topics you might experience in a marriage or a seriously dating/engaged relationship. If you got the whole experience then you get:

  • Two guidebooks written by Alyssa and me.
  • A 12-part video series where we interviewed 12 different married couples who are experts on particular subjects.
  • The deep love assessment (a 10-page tailored relationship assessment).
  • Private Facebook group with Alyssa & I, as well as others who have purchased the experience.
  • Our new book that inspired this whole thing titled Love That Lasts which comes out in October. If you ordered the experience, you officially have the book on preorder and it will show up on your doorstep the day it comes out.

If you have any particular questions about any of the 5 things above, find the corresponding section below for more details.

12-Part Marriage Mentor Video Series

You have access to all of them RIGHT NOW. Simply head over to and sign into your workshop. If you have purchased other video workshops from us in the past, your video course will just show up in your library. If you have never purchased a video workshop from us, look for an email in your inbox within 24 hours of your purchase that will invite you into our video dashboard (it will come from “Bethke Workshops” or “Kajabi”). You will see all 12 videos for Love That Lasts. Feel free to watch one a week or you can binge watch all of them or bounce around from topic to topic. You have access to these forever, so if you want to go back and watch some later, feel free.

If you never got the email invite there is a great chance it went to the junk mail folder in your inbox. Here is all you have to do: Visit –  and enter your email and instantly you will receive a new password. Make sure you use the same email address you made the purchase with.

*If you purchased the books on Amazon and didn’t get the videos in your package. You can click here to purchase the videos and the Marriage Assessment.

The Deep Love Assessment

If you purchased the Love That Lasts Experience, you have access to the Deep Love Assessment. To access this, you do that the same way as you would the video series and look for the product in your library that says “Assessment”. Once you are there, you will see a short video and a unique code in the information section of the video that is good for your assessment. The link is provided in the dashboard of where to go and there will be no charge to take the assessment with the code that is given to you. Only you or your partner need to initiate the start of the assessment, you both don’t have to do it. Once one of you begins the process, your partner will be notified to then take their part of the assessment. Once both of you take the survey/test it will generate a custom report that will be sent back to you guys. This is amazing tool.

*We do not sell just the assessment on its own. We sell this as part of the whole Love That Lasts Experience which can be found here.

The Guidebooks

Inside your Love That Lasts Experience video dashboard (which can be found by logging in at, you will see before you even get to the videos a post called “Digital Downloads”. You can download the two guidebooks inside the dashboard.

Those two guidebooks will be mailed to you and could take about 10 days to arrive. These are two great interactive guidebooks that you could go through without the videos, but we designed them to go alongside the videos as they follow the very same topics that the videos cover.

*To purchase more copies of the guidebooks click here.

The Love That Lasts book

This is the book that started this whole experience. This book we worked on for 2 years and was the starting point for us creating the whole experience. The book doesn’t release until October 10th, but if you purchased the Love That Lasts Experience you will get that delivered to you on that day.

Private Facebook Group

The Love That Lasts Experience comes with access to our private Love That Lasts Facebook group inside your dashboard on You will see a post that gives you the link and tells you how to be invited in. It might take a few days to be approved, but you will be notified.

Maui Retreat

We are doing a retreat in Maui on October 3rd-4th and you are invited! We have room for 50 couples. You can find out more about Maui retreat here –

There are two ways to purchase the Maui Retreat:

  1. Maui Retreat that includes the Love That Lasts Experience-click here
  2. Maui Retreat Only-click here

Anyone registering for the Maui retreat will see a product inside their dashboard on that says “Maui”. We will be posting all the information about the retreat inside the dashboard.

A few other quick items & reminders:

  1. Your guidebooks will start mailing May 1st and digital downloads will be available May 1st inside your dashboard.
  2. You have full access to the videos now.
  3. If you need to update your shipping address or have any issues with your order, please contact us here –
  4. If you just need to reset your password or get a login for the video dashboard, please go here
  5. If you want to do this experience as a small group, we have small group kit that is good for groups of 10 people that come with everything-click here


FINALLY! You could win a trip to Maui for our retreat. By purchasing the Love That Lasts Experience, you are automatically qualified. We are going to cover expenses for 2 to Maui with registration for the retreat and lodging. To find out how to receive more entries for this, please head to

Thanks again! So excited for you all who are going to experience this. Let us know how it is going. Use #lovethatlasts on social or @jeffersonbethke and @alyssajoybethke on social.


Jeff and Alyssa